PHOTO BY GRETEL DAUGHERTY—Sandi Niblack holds up her late husband’s VA medical card next to a rack of men’s clothes that belonged to him and a fellow military widow’s late husband during a garage sale at a friend’s house. Niblack was trying to sell clothing and her craft supplies at the garage sale to pay for his cremation costs and bills that he let slide before he died; she has already lost her car and sold her furniture, and is facing foreclosure on her home.