Family atmosphere

Volleyball team helps Mesa's Otzen cope with mother's treatment for breast cancer

Danette Otzen, right, attends all of the Colorado Mesa home volleyball matches so she can watch her daughter, Christian, play. Having Danette — who is undergoing radiation treatment to fight breast cancer — in the stands gives Christian, a freshman outside hitter for the Mavs, a sense of peace.



As her mother undergoes breast cancer treatment in Flagstaff, Ariz., Christian Otzen is making a difference for the Colorado Mesa volleyball team. The freshman outside hitter is leading the Mavs in kills with 158 in 16 matches.



QUICKREAD

Volleyball

Colorado Mines (14-4, 8-1) at Colorado Mesa (13-3, 7-1), 6 p.m. Friday, Brownson Arena.

Colorado Christian (14-5, 5-4) at Colorado Mesa, 3 p.m. Saturday, Brownson Arena.

Notes: Colorado Mesa and Colorado Mines, the top teams in their respective divisions, meet for the only time this season. The Orediggers lead the East Division and are ranked No. 12 in this week’s American Volleyball Coaches Association poll. The Mavericks lead the West Division.

Mines likes to establish the middle attack with Melanie Wannamaker, this week’s RMAC offensive player of the week, who averages 3.36 kills per set, but are balanced, much like the Mavericks.

“They have probably the best all-around outside (hitter) in Jackie Stabell,” CMU coach Dave Fleming said of the senior, who averages 3.63 kills per set. “If she turns it on, she can be the best outside. They’re very balanced, very well-coached.”

The Mavericks counter with Christian Otzen (2.77 kills per set) at outside hitter and Kelly Regimbal (2.12) on the right side, with Melissa Hess (1.83) and Rachael Beaty (1.57) in the middle. RMAC defensive player of the week Megan Rush (5.55 digs per set) anchors CMU’s defense.

“We saw them at their tournament, and they’re very good, but we think we’re competitive with them,” Fleming said of the Orediggers. “We have to have our ‘A’ game, but we’re looking forward to it for sure.”

Men’s Soccer

Colorado Mines (7-3-2, 4-2-2) at Colorado Mesa (8-3-1, 6-2), 
7 p.m. Friday, Walker Field.

CSU-Pueblo (4-7-1, 2-5-1) at Colorado Mesa, noon Sunday, Walker Field.

Notes: Mesa will wear special jerseys Friday night then have a silent auction to raise money for the National Foundation for Cancer Research. Players will also autograph 150 team cards and give them out to children 12-and-under.

■ The Mavericks have won three consecutive games and six of their past seven. All six victories were shutouts. Mesa has done it playing disciplined soccer, committing 67 fewer fouls than its opponents. “We’re very organized and disciplined,” CMU coach Josh Pittman said.

■ Mesa is looking for its first victory in the program’s history against Mines.

■ The Orediggers are led by preseason player of the year Tesho Akindele. “They are physically tough and smart,” Pittman said

■ CSU-Pueblo beat out Mesa for a RMAC playoff spot last year. “It’s like a playoff game for us. I have a lot of respect for Pueblo. They have a good side. They have to win, and we have to win,” Pittman said.

Women’s Soccer

Colorado Mines (8-4, 5-3) at Colorado Mesa (8-1-3, 5-1-2), 
4 p.m. Friday, Walker Field.

Colorado Mesa at Fort Lewis (8-2-2, 4-2-2), 1 p.m. Sunday, Walker Field.

Notes: The Mavericks are 5-1-1 in their past seven games.

■ Mesa is looking for its first win over Mines and Fort Lewis since 2007. The Mavericks tied Fort Lewis 0-0 earlier this season.

■ Mines is led by preseason RMAC player of the year Megan Woodworth.

■ Mines leads the RMAC in goals per game, 2.42, and its defense is tied with Fort Lewis for the fewest goals allowed, 0.58 per game. The Skyhawks are third in goals scored, 2.17.

Swimming & Diving

Colorado Mines at Colorado Mesa, noon Saturday, El Pomar Natatorium.

Notes: Colorado Mesa coach Ron Allen plans to utilize as many athletes as possible this weekend to establish times early in the season.

■ The Mesa men’s team is motivated to beat Mines because the Orediggers snuck by Mesa in the RMAC tournament last year and is ranked ahead of Mesa in the coaches’ preseason poll.

■ The women’s dual may serve a similar purpose for the Mines women as it does the Mesa men. Mines is picked fourth, right behind Mesa.

■ “This will give us a good idea on where we stand,” Allen said. “This will be a good test for us.”



Christian Otzen glances into the stands just before the first serve of every home volleyball match.

“I like to know they’re there,” says the freshman outside hitter for Colorado Mesa University.

Once she makes eye contact with her parents, her attention immediately shifts to the match.

A light pink ribbon holds her hair in a ponytail.

When she kneels to tie her shoes, the bright pink lace on her left shoe is tied just a little bit tighter.

“I tie my shoe, the pink one, ‘Do this for Mom,’ and I tighten it and go back to volleyball.”

A couple of months ago, Otzen wasn’t sure she’d be playing volleyball, especially 400 miles from home. Her mother, Danette, was diagnosed in June with breast cancer.

Six months after having a clear mammogram, Danette Otzen, 43, felt a lump during a routine self-exam. It was four days after Christian graduated from high school in Flagstaff, Ariz. She immediately made an appointment with her doctor. A week later she got the diagnosis.

Christian started having second thoughts about school.

“I was just really overwhelmed,” she said. “I felt like maybe I should be (home) for her. I felt like I wouldn’t be doing my part. The rest of my family was going to be there taking care of her, and I wouldn’t be.”

That’s when Danette went into what she calls “Mom Mode.”

“I need to have my surgery, I need to do this, we’re going to go on vacation, and we have two weeks and we’re going to move her, and then I’m going to start chemo,” she said matter-of-factly.

Christian, 18, was going to school; she was going to play college volleyball. Danette was going to have her treatments. The family would get through it.

“If you can just go do what you are supposed to do, then I can do what I need to,” Danette told her daughter.

There were the usual tears when parents take their children to college in August.

Christian knew there was more: It was the last time she’d see her mom looking like Mom.

“I knew when they dropped me off and moved me in, that was the last time I was going to see her normally,” Christian said. “The next time was going to be different, but it was still her, and she was getting better. It was just minus the hair; she pulls it off well.”

Indeed, Danette has a collection of fashionable scarves — thanks, in part, to Christian.

“Everywhere we go, she buys her a new scarf,” setter Jordyn Moody said.

Danette has weekly treatments through mid-December, but the advances in medication have helped her avoid nausea. Although she gets tired, she said she feels “pretty good.”

She and her husband, Chris, have been at every home match this season, making the six-hour drive from Flagstaff. When the Mavs go on the road, the family watches online.

Christian’s 17-year-old brother, Jake, comes along unless he has basketball or baseball practice. Last week several members of the family came to CMU’s “Dig Pink” match, which benefits breast cancer research.

Danette was asked to take the ceremonial first serve, not the first time she’s been included this season.

The Flagstaff High School volleyball team had a “Dig Pink” night and honored her. Danette went to the match right after a chemo treatment, saying there was no way she would miss the event.

After the Mavericks’ Holiday Inn Crossroads Classic, the family was given a large team photo, tinted in pink. It’s hanging in their home in Flagstaff.

Other parents and fans ask Danette how she’s doing, let her know they’re there if Christian needs anything.

Gestures like this sometimes bring tears. They don’t cry because Danette has breast cancer. They cry because they’re overwhelmed by the support they’ve received from people they only recently met — and those they don’t even know.

Last weekend, Danette and Christian were in downtown Grand Junction when a woman who has survived breast cancer stopped to chat and wish her well.

“I never would have thought that you’d come somewhere and be here for a month and a half and not know many people other than the people you’re with every day,” Christian said, “and they come out and tell you, ‘Hey, it’s going to be OK. We have your back 100 percent.’ ‘I don’t know you, but thank you.’ “

The players and coaches wear pink wristbands bearing Danette’s name. Their left shoelaces are hot pink — coach Dave Fleming ties a pink ribbon on his left dress shoe. They wear socks adorned with pink breast-cancer-awareness ribbons.

“If anybody has an idea, they just make it happen,” Moody said. “We all like Christian so much. We want her to feel at home here.”

“I honestly don’t think I could have done it if it wasn’t for all of them,” Christian said. “There are days that are really hard. I get stressed with school and volleyball, and you get to that point where you say, ‘I just want to go home, I want to be with my mom and my family.’ “

On those days, she often goes to seniors Megan Rush, Kelly Regimbal or Rachael Beaty.

Sometimes she just needs them to tell her what she’s feeling is normal for a college freshman. Other times she needs them to be a big sister, give her a place to hang out away from the dorm.

Fleming said he would have understood if Christian had decided to stay home this year. How quickly the Mavericks rallied around her made the whole family know she made the right choice, Danette said.

“I got a text from her dad, and he said it’s almost a perfect situation based on the circumstances,” Fleming said. “That means a lot, but again, that credit has to go to the other 14 kids. They’ve adopted her.”

After Danette finishes chemo, she’ll have two weeks off, then starts six weeks of radiation treatment. The prognosis?

“Cure,” Danette says. “Every time I talk to my doctor, the paperwork says ‘cure.’ That’s beautiful. I’ll take it.”

So will her daughter, who leads CMU with 158 kills, starting all 16 matches. She’s living her dream of playing college volleyball and making an impact as a freshman.

Home weekends are the best, when Christian glances into the stands and sees Danette smiling back at her.

That lets her know it’s time to do what she’s supposed to do — play volleyball.

“It doesn’t slow her down, so it shouldn’t slow me down,” Christian said. “I don’t want to be the one who’s sad. She’s not sad. We’ll get through it.”


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